This past week, a woman at a convenient store that I frequent to and from work commented on my wardrobe. She said that she had seen me in the store for a while now and how I always seem to "look so nice" whenever she sees me. A friend recently gave me the same compliment along the same lines, but commented on how I must spend so much time shopping and putting outfits together. The comment was funny to me, because I thought, "if only she knew how little time I spend putting outfits together" and how the typical "shopping" trip for me was usually a 15 minute dash to the mall during my lunch break (or a leisurely Friday evening post-work visit if I get really lucky...).
But the comments got me thinking, "what's the key to dressing nicely for work?" Well, before you think I'm some conceited freak who thinks she "looks great" all the time, stop right there, that's not me at all. There are many a Monday that I wear my hair in a messy bun, grab the first pair of black pants and cable knit sweater that I can reach, and call it a day. But on the whole, I do care about my appearance and try to look nice and professional on a daily basis.
The key to "dressing nicely" for work (with limited time in the mornings), is to have good basics.
I once had a friend who told me that I had a body made for "work dresses" and said that it must be easy to find clothing (I'm going to talk specifically about dresses because I'm a "dress freak"). I corrected my friend and told her that while I did try to choose dresses that fit me well, that on average I have to try on 10 to 15 dresses before I find one that fits well and is worth buying. I once heard Stacy London say "fit is everything" and over the years I've found this to be correct. It has taken me time to build my "work wardrobe," but having a few quality work dresses (and other quality peices) that fit well has made it easier. Once you have found a well-fitting work-appropriate dress, no matter how difficult it was for you to find it in the first place, you will forever have that dress, and every time you pull it out of your closet for work, you will feel great in it all day long. So, I think it's worth spending a few hours of pure agony trying on many horrible dresses, to find that "one" dress that looks absolutely stunning on you. Once you do this on a few occasions, you will see that you begin to build up a true working wardrobe.
That brings me to my second point, which is "don't be afraid to invest." When I first started down the path of building myself a career wardrobe, I went everywhere looking for the perfect dresses that I could wear to work. I tried on countless dresses from countless stores. I finally tried on one dress from White House Black Market that was not only professional and classy, but it fit like a glove and made me feel like $1 million dollars. At first I had difficulty accepting the price, but finally realized that I would give up having five mediocre dresses for this one gorgeous, classy black dress (even if it meant not purchasing another dress for 6 months). That dress ended up being an amazing investment. Not only have I received countless compliments on the dress, but the dress has cloaked me with a healthy sense of confidence. It has allowed me to walk into meetings with clients, and give presentations, while feeling secure in who I am and my abilities. It is classy, elegant, and timeless, and after 2 years, it has held up well and I continue to wear it frequently.
Point blank, don't be afraid to try clothing on and don't be afraid to invest in yourself, you're worth it!